Comparison is the Thief of Joy
Contributed by Stephanie Staples at Your Life Unlimited
I stumbled upon this site called Brief but Spectacular and there I met this 94 year old powerhouse – and today I’d like to quote her thoughts on aging…
“And there is always the possibility that romance comes your way. Just liking someone is a treat because part of being old is to get cranky. There is indigestion and your teeth fall out and suddenly you need hearing aides and you feel increasingly unattractive, and then somebody says, “How nice you look today, Mrs. Lewis! Or, you’re a real kick, Flossie!”
And you feel good about yourself. You pick yourself up and you say, “I’m going to get through it. I’m going to get through it because I have a reason to get through it.”
Really growing old is when you discover that you haven’t a reason to get through it anymore, and that you would like to go to sleep with a certain amount of dignity. Accepting the fact the body is going to go but the personality doesn’t have to go, and that thing which is the hardest to admit is that character doesn’t have to go.”